The wedding gift that gets used
Short answer: Home textiles are among the wedding gifts that actually get used. Bedding and towels appear on many wish lists for exactly that reason.
What gets used every day
Bedding is used for eight hours every night, and towels come out every morning. Few gifts can say the same. When a couple moves in together or has lived together for years, it is often the bedding and towels that are worn or do not match, because they come from two households.
Bedding
Two matching sets of bedding mean the couple can change without waiting for the first set to dry. Choose a neutral colour that suits most bedrooms, and check the duvet size in advance if you can. A matching set for both sides of the bed looks calm. See bamboo bedding.
Towels
Neutral colours fit most bathrooms and go with what the couple already owns. A set with both large and small towels covers the whole bathroom at once. Choose the same colour for both of them, so it looks consistent on the hooks. See bamboo towels.
For the guest room
A set of bedding for the guest room is a gift that gets used every time someone visits. Many couples have a set for themselves but lack a proper one for guests. Add a couple of towels, so overnight guests have everything together in one place.
Avoid sizes
Gifts without a size are safest when you do not know both partners well. Clothing means getting both taste and size right, while bedding and towels almost always fit. If you are unsure what is missing, you will find more suggestions in Christmas gift ideas.
For her and for him
If you want to give something personal to each of them, keep the gifts separate and choose something that suits each person. A few soft things for each can be a good addition to a shared gift for the home. See the two selections in Christmas gifts for her and Christmas gifts for him.
See also
If you want to know more about choosing textiles and clothing as a gift, we have gathered the main advice in one place. There you can read about colours, sizes and what is easiest to get right when you do not know their taste. Read more in bamboo clothing as a gift.
A shared gift
When several people chip in, the gift can become something the couple would otherwise have put off buying. Guest room bedding and a full set of towels are classics for that reason. Agree who handles the purchase. See home and homewear in bamboo.
If there is a wish list
If there is a wish list, follow it. It exists because the couple has already thought about what they are missing and what they have enough of. Buying from a list can feel impersonal, but it is the safest way to give something that will be used for many years.
Wash before use
New textiles should be washed once before they are used, so the fabric softens. Add a short note about washing at 40 degrees and air drying. It is a small thing, but it helps the couple keep the gift looking good for a long time, and it shows you thought about it.
Frequently asked questions
What is a wedding gift that gets used?
Bedding and towels. They are used every day, which is why they appear on many wish lists, even for couples who have lived together for years.
What if I do not know the couple well?
Then choose something without a size, such as bedding or towels in a neutral colour. That is easier to get right than clothing for two people.
Should I follow the wish list?
Yes, if there is one. It exists because the couple has thought about what they need, and it is the safest route to a gift that gets used.
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